Husband Part 2

H. Holy in conduct

U. Understanding in relationship with his wife.

S. Sound in judgment

B. Bold (not brash) and clear in communication "Then choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve, but as for me and my household, we will serve the LORD" Josh 24:15. My wife and our children never wondered if we were going to church on Sunday or Wednesday. We all knew "He is Lord" and we serve Him. "Let us not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but let us encourage one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching" Heb. 10:25. It is just the sensible and scriptural thing to do.

A. Ability to provide for his own. "But if anyone dows not provide for his own, and especially for those of his household, he has denied the faith, and is worse than an unbeliever" 1 Timothy 5:8. Of course there can be exceptions when a man has been injured or physically unable for some reason.

The man who squanders his money on drinks, drugs or debauchery of any kind ought to be terribly ashamed of himself. He promised God almighty to take care of her until death do us part. Now do it.

N. Noble in character.
"In everything set them an example by doing what is good. In your teaching show integrity, seriousness and soundness of speech that cannot be condemned, so that those who oppose you may be ashamed because they have nothing bad to say about us" Titus 2:7,8.

With these characteristics, it is not hard for a family to follow this husband.

D. Dependable
"Now it is required that those who have been given a trust must prove faithful" 1 Cor. 4:2. Men, you and I are stewards of our selves, our possessions and our families. Being the head of your wife and family not only gives you great privileges but great responsibilities. That dear wife God gave you had so much dependence in you to leave her father and mother and give herself, body and soul, to you. That precious child God gave you has such trust in you. "Be faithful, even to the point of death, and I will give you the crown of life." Rev. 2:10. Kind sir,that will be worth a jillion times more than the Heisman trophy or super bowl ring. You don't have to be a superman to gain this trophy, just a faithful man.

Prayer:  Father, help us husbands to earn the love and respect of our own families above all else. In Jesus name. All because of Calvary, sumner

Wives

W.I.F.E. She is something. Meet her here.

W. Wise in communication.

"She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue" Pro. 31:26. "The wise woman builds her house" Pro. 14:1. The house is the wife's palace. She should have the biggest input as to the house, the kind of house, rooms etc. "But she builds it," makes it a home. "but with her own hands the foolish one tears hers down"

" Like a gold ring in a pig's snout is a beautiful woman who shows no discretion" Pro 11:22.

I. Innocent in conduct.

"Instead, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God's sight" 1 Peter 3:4. What a beautiful lady she is. GOD THINKS SO! AND SO DO MEN!

F. Faithful in companionship.

The aged women "Likewise, teach the older women to be reverent in the way they live, not to be slanderers or addicted to much wine, but to teach what is good. Then they can train the younger women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled and pure, to be busy at home, to be kind, and to be subject to their husbands, so that no one will malign the word of God" Titus 2:3-5. "Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value.  She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life." Pro. 31:11,12. "But a married woman is concerned about the affairs of this world—how she can please her husband" 1 Cor. 7:34.

E. Excellent in Character

"A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies" Pro. 31:10. "In the same way, their wives are to be women worthy of respect, not malicious talkers but temperate and trustworthy in everything" 1 Tim. 3:11. " Likewise, teach the older women to be reverent in the way they live, not to be slanderers or addicted to much wine, but to teach what is good " Titus 2:3.

Dear wife, you are special. You have so much power and influence for good. For the most part, men will treat you like to command in your behavior, appearance and character.

Prayer:  Father bless our dear wives and use them greatly to help turn our world back to sanity, decency and honor. In Jesus name. All because of Calvary, sumner